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Why do managers sound like that?
Jargon, bullshit, and puff … or is it? Coming out of a big company meeting, you might wonder what it means for your team’s regular work....

Joe Pairman
Mar 178 min read
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This message should have been a meeting
Most people resent meetings. But there are two times where a meeting works best.

Joe Pairman
Feb 139 min read
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Communicating against the odds
Humans can get through to each other in unlikely situations. When the fog of work makes listening hard, how can we do the same?

Joe Pairman
Jan 713 min read
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How to prepare a presentation (and does it need a script?)
Why presenting is nothing like normal speaking, and how to make it natural.

Joe Pairman
Dec 11, 20249 min read
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Can a message be interesting without a reward?
How to keep the attention of your audience through sheer curiosity, when there’s no direct reward for them.

Joe Pairman
Nov 19, 202412 min read
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How to beat writer’s blocks at work (exclusive guide for members)
Do you ever get stuck writing something at work? You are not alone. These remedies help beat the blocks, whatever their cause.

Joe Pairman
Oct 19, 20246 min read
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Colleagues will pay attention; you just have to show them WHY
Communication is good; collaboration is good; persuading people is good (or at least necessary sometimes). And so you try...

Joe Pairman
Oct 5, 20246 min read
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The Word is Not Enough
Words aren’t neat signals, decoded at the end. They’re just clues in a game — a game that leaders need to know.

Joe Pairman
Sep 1, 20246 min read
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Do your colleagues “hear whatever they want?”
Listeners and readers create new meaning, sparked by your words.

Joe Pairman
Aug 1, 20243 min read
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Redundant language — fluff, or cultural bridge?
Tight writing is good. Repetitious writing can waste time. But “redundant words” can also help your message get across, building trust and clarifying meaning.

Joe Pairman
Jul 2, 20247 min read
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Tell them what you’re going to BORE them?!
To give your audience all they need, keep something back. Engaging communication starts with an information gap.

Joe Pairman
Jun 1, 20245 min read
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Anxious about your writing? Trust your tongue more than “grammar rules”
To focus our audience on our message, we should trust our tongue more than grammar guides.

Joe Pairman
May 1, 202418 min read
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An engineer got his white paper unstuck by figuring out the story
Do you ever get stuck writing in an unfamiliar format? Drop the template for a while and concentrate on saying something interesting.

Joe Pairman
Apr 1, 20243 min read
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Need help from a colleague? Paint them a picture.
Here’s a trick to make your work messages work: imagine you’re painting a dramatic picture.

Joe Pairman
Feb 22, 20246 min read
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How do curious leaders make teams think?
An curious-minded director kept her team improving and growing.

Joe Pairman
Jan 1, 20243 min read
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Real leaders really listen
How poor listening can get inexperienced leaders into trouble (and how to fix it)

Joe Pairman
Dec 31, 20233 min read
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Skim-Reading Less Helps our Teams and our Time
Skimming has a hidden cost — here’s how to retrain our brains to avoid it.

Joe Pairman
Dec 1, 20238 min read
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Leaders need to read beyond a bullet point or three
Over-simplifying messages makes work more complicated. Let’s write and read with more attention.

Joe Pairman
Nov 1, 20238 min read
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Nice Managers Force Priorities
To let your team succeed, setting priorities is so useful, so obvious, and so often neglected.

Joe Pairman
Oct 1, 20237 min read
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Writing is really listening
Writing feels a bit like listening, and if I’m aware of it as listening, it helps me write better.

Joe Pairman
Sep 1, 20235 min read
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